Nithin writes chuthiyapa

 Hey,  I think this will be my final vent regarding the topic of love, I have decided to quit. At least dating apps are something I don't think I want to partake in anymore.  Let's start off with a music recommendation for the blog - I Miss You by Blink-182 .   I was on and off in multiple dating apps, primarily Bumble, and looks like how it ends up is always a pattern, people just go there to boost self-confidence at least here in Kochi, Kerala. Also a tip for anyone who plans to use this, as a guy get premium this helps in discoverability.  As a girl, you will be bombarded with so many likes that you wouldn't know what to do.  I think it's because of the vast options, I think people get decision fatigue on that app, so many options. I think if we make a dating app addressing these problems it should actually help bring in connections. But I don't think it will be a profitable business model.  Let me explain what am talking about, the theory is c...

 Hey folks A very happy day to you, to kick off your mood before you read my rant as always I have a music recommendation.  In fact, this time around, I am just gonna recommend a band - Zimmer90 .  Today I am gonna talk about something that one of my close friends told me about which I also had some thoughts on.  The way I grew up with the idea of love is very different from what I think my peers think is the idea of love. What I grew up with is knowing a connection, someone special to us, that is what love meant and it was something long-term. I don't know maybe it's all the white background rom-com from the 90s which fucked me over but that was definitely my idea of love. The concept of all of these other ships did not exist back then, situationship and stuff, and I don't think I even understand that concept now. How can you be with someone who enjoys the perks of the relationship without being a tad bit attached? I have tried to understand the definition of that w...